this really sucks!!

By lady_k on Sun, 02-12-12, 08:09

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I am really getting frustrated. I'm young & only married for 2 yrs. We should be jumping each other every chance we get. but instead it has gone from bad to worse. there is NO intimacy in our marriage anymore. I thought talking about it with him would make it better and it did for like 2 weeks or so. we were experimenting with new stuff in bed. trying to get some kind of sentaion out of me, since i seem to be numb all over and it is so hard to get me in the mood.
well then "it" just stoped?!?!? no kissing, maybe alittle cuddleing, and no sex or even the attempt to start it for like a month now?!?!?! i mean we used to be maybe once a week or so which is pretty sad for a young married couple in their early 20's with no kids...... what the hell is wrong with us!!!!! whats wrong with me.... (if you have read my past post on here you will see what i'm talking about)

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By marcie on Sun, 02-12-12, 15:36

You have to be honest with each other, this is not a question of different methods, but a question of a true and genuine feelings. Be open and clear in your conversation, this way you will come to a good conclusion. These things do happen and sometimes we have too many expectations. Say a prayer and have faith. God bless you.

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By LeeAnnSanchez on Wed, 02-15-12, 10:05

Hey lady_kinus! I know where you are coming from. My husband and I have "it" maybe once every couple months, and its my fault. I do not enjoy it or want it. Its difficult for me to get into it, bc I am so uncomfortable with myself. I think what you need to do is take time with yourself, and figure out why you are not getting excited like you feel you should. Women have the same problem as men we can have sexual intimacy issues, were we need meds for it. I hope everything starts to work its self out for you! =)

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